So one of my cousins is so overly nice to the point it comes off fake and it’s annoying as fuck. She’s just twelve but almost everything she does annoys me, she prances around like I’m so nice and it’s all one big gimmick. People who are too nice annoy me to no end because I’ve found often they will lie on you if they do something wrong because they don’t want to tarnish their nice image. And she’s done this to others so many times. She even got a boy suspended after they got in trouble for acting up in class, in an effort to not get in trouble she told her teacher the boy inappropriately touched her. I don’t believe he did at all but some how her mother eats up everything she tells her and sees nothing wrong with this “I’m so sweet and everyone is always attacking me” attitude.
What scares me is that if someone doesn’t stop her now and tell her you don’t have to act nice and be the good girl at all times, you don’t have to sacrifice others to make yourself seem innocent. I’m fearful she’s going to grow up to be that girl that screams rape or constantly rats others out.
Like I asked her about friends and she said the girls are mean to her cuz she’s light skin with curly hair. I just don’t believe that, most of the girls in my family look like that and we’ve never had that problem. And I doubt she’s the only girl in her class that looks like that. But She’s always the victim. I feel like I should say something to her about it but then I feel like she’ll just play the victim as always.